Explores the dilemma that gay Christians face in their attempts to reconcile their religious and sexual identities. This book introduces the ideologies and practices of two alternative, and competing, ministries that offer solutions for Christians who experience homosexual desire.

In contrast, Exodus International preaches that homosexuality is a sin and a symptom of disordered psychological development - one that can be cured through redemptive prayer. By comparing participant experiences in these ministries, Wolkomir explores the paths and processes by which members learn to become gay or ex-gay Christians. Through careful analysis of the groups' ideologies, interactions, and symbolic resources, "Be Not Deceived" goes far beyond the obvious differences between the ministries to uncover their similarities, namely that both continue to define heterosexuality as the normative and dominant lifestyle.